When I first got into the dating scene in college, I was completely clueless about what really drives attraction.

Cold approaching in between class was exciting yet tough because the pressure to turn those interactions into something meaningful was intense.

While I sometimes faced embarrassing rejections, there were also very rewarding moments when I would hit the jackpot

For example, I would approach girls as they walked by, and the interactions often went wonderfully.

She would smile, and we’d connect on multiple levels.

She’d even give me her number, promising to text when she had some free time.

But that initial excitement would quickly shift to an unpleasant question: "how should I text her this time?"

I wanted to keep that amazing impression without having to build interest all over again.

After only a few text exchanges, I'd end up breadcrumbed, ignored, or even blocked for reasons that made no sense to me

and sometimes they'd just ghost me right from the first message.

This happened often, leaving me heartbroken...

Unsure on what I had done wrong I couldn't help but wonder if my texting style was the root cause of these broken connections.

When relationships wouldn't last, I would find myself back out there approaching more. 

I quickly gained a reputation as 'that guy' who approached everyone, a label that wasn't always seen in a positive light.

However, it ultimately paid off. BIG TIME

What I didn't know was that each interaction became a valuable opportunity to enhance my social skills.

And here’s what I discovered through my journey

When you master the art of effective communication, women naturally feel more at ease and open up in ways you might never expect...